Hedgehog Bonding: Helpful Tips & Tricks

Hedgehog bonding attempt

Sometimes hedgehog bonding is a frustrating and unrewarding experience. Trust us when we say that your hedgie doesn't hate you! You may think that your hedgehog is never going to bond with you. After all, you've got this amazingly cute hedgie that you just want to love and care for. And what do you get in return? You're rewarded with a balled up, hissing, huffing, and spiky quilled creature that doesn't want to be touched!

Almost every new hedgehog owner feels insecure about handling their new quill ball. You're not alone. It isn't that your hedgehog hates you. Instead, it's that they don't trust you…yet. In order to begin hedgehog bonding, you need to try to understand their defensive nature. As we explore the reasons for the defensiveness, we'll give you some tips and tricks to help overcome the obstacles.

Overcoming a Hedgehog's Defenses

When they [hedgehogs] feel that they are at risk they will simply curl up in a ball. The predator can’t figure out what the image is that they see. They also can’t find a place that isn’t full of those sharp quills so they are going to leave it alone.

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Hedgehogs have very poor eyesight once their eyes open a couple of weeks after they are born. Because of this, sudden movements will almost always trigger their defenses. To a hedgehog, practically everything that is bigger than they are is considered a predator. They become frightened with sudden changes or chaos.

Tip #1

Don't make sudden movements toward your hedgehog

Tip #2

Keep their cage in an area that doesn't have a sharp contrast between day and night to avoid large shadows being cast across them.

Tip #3

Create an interaction-friendly environment with some well-chosen hedgehog supplies. This is an environment where it is easy to access your hedgehog without a lot of chaos. For example, use a hide-away that can be lifted off of them rather than you having to reach into an enclosed space.

Tip #4

Using a snuggle (cuddle) sack for them to hide in is a great option to help you remove hedgie from their environment and into yours to create bonding.

Tip #5

When holding your hedgie in your hand and all they want to do is wander away, make a “bridge” for them to walk onto. Put your empty hand in front of the hand holding your hedgie, and when they walk onto that one, move the hand that they were previously on to the front. Keep doing this rotation as long as they're willing to tolerate the stimulation. This also helps them associate with your “scent”.

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hedgehog snuggle sack with paw print pattern

Strategies for Hedgehog Bonding

hedgehog bonding with owner on her lap
Thanks go to Amy Roberts for this great capture of her bonding with her hedgehog

In order to bond with your hedgehog, you're going to have to earn their trust. As we've stated before, be patient. Since their eyesight is weak, their senses of hearing, smell and taste are heightened. We can use these heightened senses as a tactical advantage to encourage hedgehog bonding.

How Hearing Can Help You Bond With Your Hedgie

According to a hearing study by Louisiana State University, on a variety of animals, a hedgehog has an approximate hearing range between 250-45,000 Hz. In comparison, humans typically have a hearing range between 64-23,000 Hz. The study of sound is outside the scope of this article. Suffice it to say that hedgehogs can hear much higher frequencies than human hearing can pick up. At the same time, hedgies don't have the ability to hear frequencies quite as low as we can.

In case you're wondering if the frequency of human speech is within a hedgehog's hearing range…the answer is yes…most of the time. The female frequency range is 350 Hz to 17,000 Hz. Conversely, the male frequency range is typically 100Hz to 8,000 Hz. If a man has a particularly deep voice, it may be outside the range of a hedgehog's ability to hear it.

Tip #6

Even when they are in their cage asleep or resting during the day, talk to them and around them while you are up and about. Let them hear your voice so they associate it with something non-threatening and normal in their environment.

Tip #7

If you have to be away at work during the day, try setting up a sound track that plays your voice throughout the day. Or you can use the Wyze camera that has 2-way audio to talk to them spontaneously throughout the work day. Just make sure you're alone or your co-workers might think you've lost your mind.

The Nose Knows Friend or Foe

Thanks go to Luella Robertson who provided this video of a hedgehog sniffing furiously

One of the cutest things to watch a hedgehog do is when they wriggle their nose furiously while hot on the trail of something they smell. Even when they are curled up in a spiky ball, they're sniffing. It's the most common way they confirm whether someone (or something) is friend or foe. Their keen sense of smell can be used to your advantage by trying the following tips and tricks.

Tip #8

Make sure that you're consistent with your “scent” when you attempt hedgehog bonding. Fragrances like lotion, perfume, deodorants, shampoo/conditioner, and laundry products all affect what your “signature scent” is. Whatever that is, keep it consistent.

Tip #9

Don't wear gloves when you pick up your hedgehog. Your hedgie needs to learn your “scent” and gloves are a barrier that only prolong the hedgehog bonding process.

Tip #10

When you want to pick your hedgie up, slowly lay your hand down just in front of their head and wait without moving it. Often they will begin sniffing, and as long as they don't perceive you as a threat, they may walk onto your hand. If they don't, let them continue sniffing and slowly pick them up.

Tip #11

Put a worn shirt or some other cloth that's been close to your skin in their cage and let them use it to snuggle in. The familiar scent will help them more easily associate with something comforting and make it easier to bond with you. A shirt can be a bit big in a small space, so try doing a workout, housework, or some other sweat-producing activity with a bandana around your head or neck. That would make the perfect size snuggle for your hedgehog. Just remember to replace it regularly with a freshly “scented” bandana.

Hedgehog Bonding By Tickling Their Taste buds

When all else fails, it's time to pull out the heavy artillery. That's right…we're talking bribing your hog with wormie treats. Trick them with their weakness! After all, what else could entice an insectivore better than bug treats? Here's how you make this work to your advantage:

The Ultimate Trick

Lay your hand down just in front of their head and on the opposite side of your hand, dangle a wormie treat. Let them step onto your hand and lift them up as you reward them with the treat. After awhile your hedgehog will begin to associate being held by you with positive reinforcement.

Wrapping Up Hedgehog Bonding

The Immersion Trick

We call this the immersion trick. A hoodie with an ample front pocket or a hedgehog bonding scarf makes a nice, safe, snuggle sack for your hedgie to sleep in during the day, if you have the ability to do that. And for the male hedgie lover, they make hedgehog bonding fanny packs too! By doing this, they are immersed in your “signature scent”, hearing your voice throughout the day, and, if you can bear to do it, you can feed them a treat while in your pocket to seal the deal!

hedgehog bonding scarf
This hedgehog bonding scarf helps you bond by immersing them with your presence. Available with pet mesh or grommets for air.
hedgehog bonding fanny pack
A hedgehog bonding fanny pack makes a good unisex alternative

It isn't going to happen overnight, so don't be discouraged. Having a hedgehog as a pet has its pros and cons, but we think they're definitely worth the effort. In order to effectively bond, hedgehogs need to be held by you at least 30 minutes each day. Many hedgies have been successfully won over by using one or more of these time-tested tips and tricks, and we believe they will work for you too. With consistency, love, and patience, we're confident you'll be able to win them over and have a hedgehog that is well bonded to you.

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4 thoughts on “Hedgehog Bonding: Helpful Tips & Tricks”

  1. Ruby Thornethomsen

    I love this article! All stuff I know is true and all put together in a helpful article! The writer is also part of the Hedgehog Alliance group on FB, anyone needing more info can find it (and a bunch of hog lovers) there!

    1. Thank you Ruby. We’re hog-wild about hedgies and we’re always happy to meet or help others who are as well!

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